Friday, 31 May 2013

Monthly Musings: May 2013

An overview of opinions and observations for the month.

01/05/2013 @01:42
Predicting this choice will be regretted tomorrow, but there is no doubt that right now, it's not a choice I have any real control over. Let the last episode of Dexter commence...

01/05/2013 @02:40
/7

01/05/2013 @09:25
"I want to dance, I want to dance.../
I want lust & love & a smattering of romance."

01/05/2013 @13:35
"And then I catch myself.../
Catching your scent on someone else."

01/05/2013 @22:27
In my eyes, my heart, and my mind, I have two children. Ilysha, and Charlie; my blood, and my water... ♥

01/05/2013 @22:33
Two reasons I'm not leaving.

01/05/2013 @22:49
I don't know why so I could never explain.../
But I promise you Ilysha, you're my everything.


[https://soundcloud.com/anothab/i-will-go]

01/05/2013 @23:14
Wank and an early night I think.

01/05/2013 @23:33
How fast time flies, 3yrs ago I was handing in my Final Dissertation for University which got me a 2.1 degree in Computer Games Design and an official "BSc" at the end of my name. Madness. Best of luck to all you University students out there who are preparing to hand in your own dissertations.
[https://www.dropbox.com/s/6v99kl1tenumyb0/Final%20Dissertation.PDF]

02/05/2013 @00:55
"You will always be a part.../
Of my patched up, patchwork, taped up, tape deck heart."

02/05/2013 @09:17
"So I sat down in my sadness, beneath your window.../
And I played sad songs on the minor keys of a broken piano."

02/05/2013 @10:41
"It gets dark sometimes. I know it does. I'm right there with you. But do not, under any circumstances, give anyone the satisfaction of seeing you ragequit. They don't deserve it. Play other, better moves – and consider your long game."

02/05/2013 @12:55
Just come from my meeting with YMCA Relationship Services who are arranging my access with my daughter Ilysha... just 9 more days until I get to see my little beautiful princess for the first time since Nov 23rd... :') - Daddy loves you ♥

02/05/2013 @18:18
Convenient how the adverts on Youtube never have to buffer, yet the videos you actually want to watch do.

02/05/2013 @19:04
Today warrants a cold pint in the Moorland beer garden. Anybody fancying it?

02/05/2013 @22:21
Think I'll curl up and watch Jack Reacher with a naughty pizza... :)

02/05/2013 @23:02
"Cause I don't love her like I used to.../
So to get back at me, she knows she gotta use you.../
And I don't know what else to do.../
She don't understand that this shit will bruise you too."

03/05/2013 @00:42
Hahahaha! I literally jumped!

03/05/2013 @08:09
Commitment means remaining loyal, no matter what.

03/05/2013 @08:17
Hell Friday, mighty good to have you back... :D


03/05/2013 @13:33
After still not receiving correspondence from CJI about my drugs test, I decided to be proactive and rang them to check the situation. They advised they've got my file prepared but are awaiting directions from my Solicitor to proceed. So I rang my Solicitors to see what the crack is - they've informed me that Marie still hasn't got her Legal Aid Certificate sorted, so we've got to wait on that still. Looks like being another couple of weeks with long hair for me... *sigh*

03/05/2013 @18:54
Past alcoholic living, and a cocaine addiction.../
I've put it all behind me 'cause I've found what was missing.


03/05/2013 @19:19
We need to mediate for the sake of Ilysha.../
5 months straight you wouldn't even let me see her!!/
And they tell me to swallow it? Accept the past?!/
Yet I choke on the hate that you fed so fast!!

03/05/2013 @19:58
Felt belief enter me, my daughter was sent to me.../
The blessing of the century; all of you should envy me.../
A miracle so heavenly, my love for her has set me free.../
Embracing my destiny; I'm giving her the best of me.

[http://www.reverbnation.com/anothab/song/16778757-hurricane]

03/05/2013 @23:07
Back home from Pure Gym, rinsed.

04/05/2013 @00:29
Falling in love is the easy part.

04/05/2013 @11:17
In exactly 1 week, I'll be holding my Princess once more :') ♥

04/05/2013 @12:49
"And we pretty much amazing!"
♥ [with Kym Archbold]


04/05/2013 @12:56
"I try talking to the bitch, but she keep using you as a bargaining chip.../
And I am not the one to be bargaining with.../
That just make me wanna go and put my palms on that bitch!/
I swear this shit ain't even right brah.../
I ain't even got the chance to change your fucking diaper.../
This is what I get for going raw when I piped her.../
Thinking that I loved her, when I shouldn't of even liked her!/
But I do not regret my child.../
Stupid bitch I just wanna see my child!/
Do what you may, but you will never make me bow!"

04/05/2013 @13:11
She's trying to hurt me, and want's to see me cry.../
Trying to break me, and I don't know why?/
I accept I ain't the perfectest of guys.../
But still I try just to make it all alright.../
It's like she needs to see my suffering to thrive.../
For my daughter though, I swear I will survive.../
I won't die like my ex seems to want me to.../
I'll overcome everything that I'm going through.../
Ilysha you're my world, and I promise I will honour you.../
Nothing and nobody will ever stop me from holding you.

04/05/2013 @22:38
Go hard, or go... pause.

04/05/2013 @23:27
#beastmode


05/05/2013 @00:11
Bath and then bed, tonight can fuck itself right off.

05/05/2013
#ragequit

05/05/2013 @08:54
It's always fun getting grief off people for no reason whatsoever. I've learned over time, that when people go out of their way to insult you or bring you down, it's jealousy. Haters gon' hate. I aren't angry, I'm embarrassed for them. #growup


05/05/2013 @10:27
"I know she enjoys it, so I suck it up and smile.../
But fuck this stupid bitch, I just wanna see my child."

05/05/2013 @10:38
"I've been that kid, written that chapter.../ Moved on quick now I'm living what's after.../ Lived for the laughter, the weekend sessions.../ Hangovers, comedowns, the pretend lessons.../ Repeated those infamous words of "never again".../ Felt stuck in that cycle forever my friend."

05/05/2013 @11:16
I make music for me, and me alone; if other people happen to like it too, it's just a pleasant coincidence... :)

05/05/2013 @12:19
I've been painted as a waster.../
Now they're telling me to face her, this traitor?/
And swallow back sickening tastes that she catered.../
Pretend it's all rosy, even though I fucking hate her!?/
but I'll try it for you Princess.../
Because I know that it's in your best interests.

05/05/2013 @13:08
I'm giving you my all...
and never nothing less, Princess.

[http://www.reverbnation.com/anothab/song/17197599-never-nothing-less]

05/05/2013 @13:37
Hungry for Mic Righteous' new mixtape tomorrow!!

05/05/2013 @18:12
Had a lovely day at the park with my Char-char, Sheila Scott, Dawn Wheels Owen and Teddy :) x

05/05/2013 @23:51
Back home from a lovely evening including about 5 miles of walking... going find something eat, then best go crawl in bed ready for the gym in the morning... :)

06/05/2013 @10:28
Smashed the gym up with Terry Scott, now what to do for the rest of the day? :P

06/05/2013 @10:33
"Mash up the place!"
*armchair raving* haha ♥


06/05/2013 @11:06
When people lie online, argue about it when you call them on their bullshit, and then delete their comments when they concede defeat haha! #trolololol

06/05/2013 @11:14
Found a new workout for the gym tomorrow @Terry... :)


06/05/2013 @11:57
Game of Thrones time, rude not too.

06/05/2013 @12:55
And the ignorant hate on rap, and pigeon hole a genre based on a misconception.


06/05/2013 @14:45
You cannot claim "I am pretty shy" whilst having a photo of your almost fully exposed breasts as your profile picture. Just no.

06/05/2013 @15:14
Banshee is the dogs bollocks.
[with Mathew Tabbinor]

06/05/2013 @19:38
Nice few hours in the beer garden having a bevvy or five
[with Rob Lowe, Emma Lemon and Steve Davies]

06/05/2013 @23:10
Going to curl up in bed and sleep peacefully knowing that when I awake it'll be one day closer to seeing my little Princess :') ♥

07/05/2013 @09:23
Nice walk to work in the sunshine, smiling happily knowing in 4 days from now I'll be seeing my Princess :) ♥

07/05/2013 @13:11
Sunshine, it really does bring out the legs, tits and arse haha... no complaints from me though! ;)

07/05/2013 @18:27
This is absolutely disgraceful.

07/05/2013 @18:35

07/05/2013 @19:45
Banshee, episode 6... I saw Mathew Tabbinor's hints prior to watching it, and the scene in question definitely lived up to the hype!! Good fucking Jesus!!!

07/05/2013 @21:53
Back from Pure Gym and slightly pissed off that some bellends decided to hog the Smith machine to do shrugs. I'm going piss everyone off and go do some curls in the squat rack next time. #spittingoutmytampon

07/05/2013 @22:31
Get out my way unless you're with my train of thought.../
Only one thing on this planet that could stop this pain of course.../
Simply put, that's my daughter.../
Trust me if you saw her, you'd see why I adore her.../
Why I'm not running for the borders.../
Why I'd do anything at all for her.../
She's my sunshine, through the dark days.../
Home is with her, cause with her is where my heart stays.

[https://soundcloud.com/anothab/i-will-go]

07/05/2013 @22:34
This world's imperfect.../
But with you it's worth it.../
Will never let my fuse short circuit.../
Never let you fall and bruise your surface.../
Forever prove my purpose.../
We never choose this circus.../
But I'll be a clown for you.../
Around for you, as sure as the Earth is.

[https://soundcloud.com/anothab/lullaby]

07/05/2013 @22:50
Banshee, reminding me why I hate love.

07/05/2013 @23:57
I felt like being a real bad boy tonight, proper ruthless like I used to be... so after smashing up the gym, I ate a whole packet of Wine Gums. I'm definitely going to Hell.

08/05/2013 @09:24
Oh wow, there was me thinking it was Wednesday but it turns out it's "Drive Like A Dickhead Day" instead. Almost had 3 crashes on the way to work because impatient bellends just pull out of side roads without a seconds thought!

08/05/2013 @22:09
Home from visiting my Char-char, Sheila Scott & Dawn Wheels Owen... another lovely day on the build up to seeing my Princess this weekend :') ♥

08/05/2013 @22:13
Through each emotion there's no doubt in my mind.../
One look in their eyes and I know I'll be fine.../
I'll never stopping trying to make our worlds all align.../
And I know in my mind it's just a matter of time.../
My fate is my design, every detail I define.../
With this light in my life I refuse to resign.../
You're gonna have to sack me or kill me.../
I will never quit on this gift that fulfils me...
I've got my blood and my water.../
That's my Son and my Daughter.../
And I'd doing anything for ya.../
The way your Father ought'a.


[https://soundcloud.com/anothab/anotha-b-blood-water]

08/05/2013 @22:32
I don't see you enough and it tears me apart.../
That crinkle face smile always melts my heart.../
And I knew from the start, I'd do whatever it takes.../
To keep that smile in place; to not make mistakes.

:') ♥
[https://soundcloud.com/anothab/like-my-own]

08/05/2013
I literally can't wait for Saturday ♥ #reunited

08/05/2013 @23:33
I think that's quite enough for today, my bed is calling me impatiently and I'm all too happy to oblige.

09/05/2013 @08:37
Not tomorrow, but the day after...!! :'D ♥

09/05/2013 @13:39
I have a new policy, and it's pretty straightforward. If you buy shit you don't need off Amazon every payday, buy Maccy's and Greggs every day for your meals, and still moan about being skint - expect to be told to shut the fuck up. Simples.

09/05/2013 @14:37
Just had a phone call off my Solicitor advising that my drug test can now proceed as soon as CJI sort me an appointment... :D

09/05/2013 @15:13
Proactively, I'm just spoken with CJI about my drugs test and it's now booked for 11am on Monday, in the comfort of my own living room... ;)

09/05/2013 @17:29

09/05/2013 @18:38
I guess I thrive on the drama?/
I plant seeds of doubt, with no way out from the karma.../
They say you reap what you sow, so I'm a certified farmer.../
In my field of dreams though I'm wearing my armour.

09/05/2013 @19:19
I had an alcohol problem fresh out of college.../
A Cannabis addiction I refused to acknowledge.../
Developed that one further and got hooked on Cocaine.../
And guess what? - every one I overcame!!


09/05/2013 @19:39
When out on the track, my focus so fast.../
Mo Farah couldn't match my flow when I rap.


09/05/2013 @19:42
My daughter was conceived, how I'd foreseen the plot.../
Bringing baby mama drama till my breathing stops.../
Although I owe her props; I guess it's sort of strange.../
I can't deny the fact that she forced a change.


09/05/2013 @19:44
I've been to Hell and drank vodka with the Devil.../
Found my way back and I'm not the kinda rebel that I was back then.../
Changed lots fast when.../
My daughter was conceived, now I'm not "that" Ben.../
I'm a Father, regardless of lies and deception.../
I've fought to be that since the time of conception.../
So I'll surrender to all torture.../
To be immortal in the eyes of my daughter.

09/05/2013 @21:14
Banshee, episode 10. Commence.

09/05/2013 @21:28
I fall hard, and fall fast, always aware it can't last.../
So now I volunteer for loneliness to not repeat the past.

09/05/2013 @22:11
I dream of what we could have been if we had played it different.../
In that hindsightful wisdom,
the kind that makes us question our decisions.

[http://www.reverbnation.com/anothab/song/16263906-unfinished-business]

09/05/2013 @22:16
Love isn't simply something used to fill the space.../
Love is truly natural; never something you create.

[http://www.reverbnation.com/anothab/song/14926895-love-is]

10/05/2013 @07:00
Time to go smash up some weights at Pure Gym... :)

10/05/2013 @10:00
24hrs until I should be seeing my daughter for the first time in 169 days; not that I'm counting... :') ♥

10/05/2013 @10:33
Very clever advertising technique. Awesome campaign.


10/05/2013 @11:14
It seems my hard work and patience is finally paying off. First access tomorrow, my drug test Monday, then mediation starts next Friday. I only need SPIP sorting now ahead of my next Court date in June... :) ♥

10/05/2013 @18:05
Looks like I made it home just in time haha :)

10/05/2013
Why you kicked out hotel bro? @c_j_bostock

10/05/2013 @21:18
I'm usually thanking Mathew Tabbinor for putting me onto brilliant TV shows... tonight it's Clark Raftery's turn... #BrBa

10/05/2013 @22:43
12hrs from now I'll be sat with the girl that I love the most, and the girl that I hate the most. It's a strange situation to imagine.

10/05/2013 @22:46
Dear Ilysha, Daddy loves you.../
You're his Princess, no-one above you.../
And Dear Ilysha, Daddy's here too.../
Wishing time stopped, when he sees you.

10/05/2013 @23:51
My weekends used to be alcohol, drugs and regrets... now they're gym, Ilysha and Charlie... :') #nocontest

11/05/2013 @08:23
Happy, excited, impatient, nervous, apprehensive... I'm just one great big clusterfuck of emotions this morning.

11/05/2013 @12:57
:'') ♥

11/05/2013 @13:20
Such an adorable little gummy smile, giggles and chuckles... two beautiful blue eyes watching me intently as I cuddled and played with her... two explorative chubby little hands, constantly stroking my face and reaching out for me... two wild arms clutching to me tightly as I gave her hugs and kisses... two strong little chunky legs kicking out in amusement as I held her up in the air above my head, pulling cheeky little faces at her... that was quite easily two of the best hours of my entire life... and my heart is broken that I've had to leave her once more... Daddy truly loves you Princess Ilysha, and I'm already counting down to seeing you again... :') ♥

11/05/2013 @15:53
The most fitting song for my relationship with my Ilysha... ♥
"I'd give up forever to touch you.../
'Cause I know that you feel me somehow.../
You're the closest to heaven that I'll ever be.../
And I don't want to go home right now.../
And all I can taste is this moment.../
And all I can breathe is your life.../
'Cause sooner or later it's over.../
I just don't want to miss you tonight.../
And I don't want the world to see me.../
'Cause I don't think that they'd understand.../
When everything's made to be broken.../
I just want you to know who I am."


11/05/2013 @16:09
I'm such an emotional mess right now.

11/05/2013 @19:03
Best get myself showered & prepped ready for a few celebratory jars with the lads... :)

11/05/2013 @19:47
"Whatever the weather, we gon' be better together!"


11/05/2013 @19:54
Never fails to get me on a hype ting!! ;)


11/05/2013 @20:09
It's Tiesto. Need I say more?!!


12/05/2013 @12:48
Six months I'd been patient.../
Holding my breath in a stressful situation.../
But nothing could prepare me for sensations.../
I'd feel on the day that I'd been anticipating.../
I was waiting round for you.../
Your pretty eyes met mine as I saw you.../
I melted, choking back the tears I'd fought through.../
Reminding me how much that I love and adore you.../
Impatient to hold you tight in my arms.../
You looked at me and smiled and my world fell calm.

12/05/2013 @13:39
I've lived through the torture,
found what I was searching for.../
Daddy finally got back his daughter,
after all the hurt and war.../
I've had to move mountains,
and sometimes I deserved to fall.../
But there's never any doubting,
Princess you were worth it all.

12/05/2013 @19:02
Overwhelmed so much cause I'd been afraid.../
That your Mum would explode like a teen grenade.../
Or you wouldn't know me, and would get distressed.../
That you'd reject my love and I would get depressed.../
Instead I stood impressed at the love you expressed.../
The way that you kept your head rested on my chest.../
It was the best... same time next week.../
I'm counting down the seconds till the next time we meet.../
The time we spent together keeps playing on repeat.../
Just the thought of you near and my heart skips a beat.../
You're my Princess Ilysha and no-one can compete.../
The jigsaw piece that makes my life complete.

12/05/2013 @23:45
Just finished the first season of Breaking Bad... (Y)

13/05/2013 @10:43
Got my drugs test in about 20mins, I think I'm going to stick Scarface on for some background noise whilst they do what they need to do.

13/05/2013 @18:25
I've got an awesome bald patch from my drugs test... #zidane

13/05/2013 @20:27
"I'd do you, if you wanted? If I had to make a top ten of women I know that I would do, you'd be in that list. Number seven, alright. Seriously. Do you want to get a drink sometime?"

13/05/2013 @21:34
You're my Princess Ilysha and no-one can compete.../
The jigsaw piece that makes my life complete.../
From your head to your feet, perfectly unique.../
Perfectly perfect... perfection at it's peak.

13/05/2013 @22:26
Perfectly perfect, perfection at it's peak.

[http://www.reverbnation.com/anothab/song/17291128-worth-it-all]

13/05/2013 @23:32
"You'd do it with a foreign fella wouldn't you? Chinese fellas, what about the Chinese fellas? Cause they've not got a great reputation as lovers, but they must be doing something right cause there's billions of 'em."

14/05/2013 @01:58
Just woke up hyperventilating! In my dream a girl I know woke me up having a panic attack - she climbed onto the bed with me and I could her her rapid breaths and could tell she was terrified of something, and the sound of her panicking made my heart start to race and I was struggling to catch my own breath and I pulled the bed cover from over my face and I saw a look of genuine fear in her eyes and then she screamed in terror and I woke up... proper fucked up!!

14/05/2013 @12:36
Absolutely love these.
[http://www.happyplace.com/topic/got-recap-season-3/newest]

14/05/2013 @20:41
I get goosebumps listening to some of the lyrics in this ♥


14/05/2013 @22:27
Pure Gym is my drug, & I need my fix!!

15/05/2013 @09:21
To the random loudmouthed girl on the bus; no your boyfriend isn't in prison begging you to have his child, no some other random lad who you'd never met before didn't just "give you £2,000 for nothing", and no you don't sound cool blatantly chatting bare shit on the bus. Shut the fuck up.

15/05/2013 @11:04
I’m in such an irritable mood today that every little thing is annoying me. And to fuel the fire, I’m sat in work with only a prize idiot for company. If you don't want to hear any complaining today, seriously, just avoid me and my Facebook account.

15/05/2013 @22:33
I literally don't even have the words... the audacity of some people knows no bounds!!

15/05/2013 @23:23
The most perfect "I told you so" moment ever...!!

16/05/2013 @00:09
You knew best. #irony #sarcasm

16/05/2013 @09:26
Never seek sympathy or empathy from somebody you’ve continually and repeatedly treated like an absolute cunt, because it obviously isn’t going to happen. You can’t cross a bridge after you’ve burned it. #karma

16/05/2013 @10:43
So, you stopped me attending the 20 week scan, didn't allow me to be at the birth or cut the umbilical cord despite knowing how much I wanted too. Left me off the Birth Certificate, and told me that it was your choice whether I was on there since you were the one who'd given birth not me. Dictated that I could only have 1hr access a week at your own Mum's house, whilst my daughter slept the entire time; I wasn't allowed to hold her and all your immediate family gave me grief. You told me that NONE of my family would be allowed to EVER meet my daughter, and then your own smug Mum repeatedly told me that I'm nothing more than a Sperm Donor, physically threatened/intimidated me, and told me I have no rights to have a copy of my own daughter's Birth Certificate! You LIED and made me out to be an alcoholic druggy, and worse still, a threat to my own child! I had to be scrutinised by CAFCASS like I was some kind of animal, and had to have a drug test to prove my innocence just because you are bitter and manipulative... You've lied about me and made me out to be some type of monster. I haven't been allowed to see/have/take any pictures of my OWN daughter, and then you've dictated to me that I'm not allowed to share pictures of my daughter with anyone, EVER. And obviously the icing on the great big fucking joke of a cake was when YOU stopped me seeing my own beautiful daughter for practically 6 months, during which I suffered badly with depression as a result, and had to skint myself monthly paying for Solicitors fee's. You've literally put me through Hell, and without so much as a second thought - no apology, no remorse, and no regrets. You don't care about how much you've hurt me, or about everything you've taken from me that I will NEVER get back. And now I've actually made it to Court, I've actually jumped through all the long drawn out hoops... now you've actually been forced to let me see my daughter again after how difficult you've made if for me... after I've battle through every obstacle you've put in front of me... now you have the fucking audacity to tell me I need to drop the Court action because you can't afford to pay Solicitors fees? Oh, and you ask me to give you an extra £20 every month off the record to pay for your bus fare? You are a truly fucking special sort of stupid.

16/05/2013 @12:49
It feels so fucking good being in control of a situation that had been out of my hands for so long... :')


16/05/2013 @18:16
"You're running out of time.../
I came to take what's mine.../
If you think I'm stepping aside.../
You're losing your mind, losing your mind!!"


16/05/2013 @19:20
Jesus, proper tearjerker of an ending to Arrow!

16/05/2013 @19:43
The time spent depressed, all the nights I never slept.../
You're worth every drop of the tears, blood and sweat.../
The weight on my shoulders, the fears and the stress.../
I'm giving you my all... and never nothing less, Princess.


[http://www.reverbnation.com/anothab/song/17197599-never-nothing-less]

16/05/2013 @21:04
Begged a fight so I fought, no regrets, no remorse.../
Now your trying to escape from the shitstorm you caused!?/
Fuck that!! You're going down with the ship.../
You made your fucking bed, so fucking lie down in it!

17/05/2013 @01:07
Knocking back Birthday buds with the old man :)
[with Chris Scott]

17/05/2013 @02:49
Why does spicy food smell so much better when you've had a beer!? [feeling awesome]

17/05/2013 @11:50
Ehrmagerd... this is shocking. Talk about massively stereotyping a gender. Real female geeks will be disgusted...
[http://www.cc4g.net/]

17/05/2013 @13:55
I've been painted as a waster,
now they're telling me to face her, this traitor.../
And swallow back sickening tastes that she's catered,
pretend it's all rosy, even though I fucking hate her.
But I'll try it for you Princess.../
Because I know that it's in your best interests.


17/05/2013 @17:01
Unexpectedly uneventful... I'm proud of myself for staying focused on what is important, and not getting sidetracked on scoring points. [feeling Proud]

17/05/2013 @18:31
I've just watched Skint, and fucking good Jesus... for starters I'd slap that Callum silly if I was his old dear!

17/05/2013 @19:33
"I know your guards up.../
Especially when the situation regards trust."

#Euroz

17/05/2013 @21:00
Just about to set a new best score on Temple Run 2, when I get a low battery warning pop up on my screen, and have to sit there helplessly as I watch myself run off a cliff and die. [feeling annoyed]

17/05/2013 @21:47
It feels like the jigsaw pieces are finally all falling into place, can't wait to see my little Princess again tomorrow, it's all smiles and sunshine on this side of the rainbow.
[feeling invincible]

18/05/2013 @21:13
Going to spend a couple hours with my favouritest person in the entire world, Daddy's beautiful little Princess Ilysha... :'') ♥

18/05/2013 @13:05
Another perfect 2hrs with my perfect little Princess... :') ♥
[feeling blessed]

18/05/2013 @16:43
Lovely wedding for a lovely couple! So happy for Lee Clark and Hayley Tunnicliffe!! Congratulations on your wedding, and may the best of your past, be the worst of your future together!! :') ♥

18/05/2013 @17:56
I used to naively think I could relate to the love of a parent for their child based on my love for my siblings and Charlie my Godson - but nothing, and I mean literally nothing in the world even comes close to the feeling of love, attachment and pride that you feel looking at your own child, nothing even begins to scratch the surface of the overwhelming depth of those emotions :') I feel like I never had a purpose until I looked into my little Princess Ilysha's eyes, until I felt that instant bond, that unbreakable and unconditional love that comes so automatically, instantly and effortlessly washing over you - and in those moments, even from birth, you know that there is not a single thing you wouldn't give, not a single risk you wouldn't take, not a single obstacle no matter how big that you wouldn't overcome just to ensure their safety, happiness and innocence. Ilysha is my world, my life, the alpha and omega of everything that I could ever hope, pray, wish or dream for - and with every breath in my body, every single ounce of what I am, with everything I have in me, I will swear on my life that I will fight for her, love her, honour her and respect her until the time I leave this Earth. Nothing and nobody will ever stop that, nothing will ever change that. I don't even feel that the words here do justice to how I feel for her, sometimes not even the best writers can explain the complexity of deep emotions and thoughts. Our children are our future, and our greatest blessing. Never take them for granted, and appreciate, cherish and love every second that you are blessed to have them in your life. ♥

18/05/2013 @19:14
When being a good samaritan puts you in an awkward position, grrr. Sometimes you try to help, but it leaves you kinda stuck figuring the best way to proceed... :/

19/05/2013 @01:11
Brilliant night spent with lots of people I care about a lot... :)

19/05/2013 @11:00
Takes me back, let me tell ya!


19/05/2013 @21:07
Whilst they're swimming in their riches,
we're left living in the ditches./
Fighting for scraps and behaving like we're bitches./
If it scratches then we itch it./
Society is broken we should fix it.

[http://www.reverbnation.com/anothab/song/17357221-contrast]

19/05/2013 @21:15
Earlier today my 3yr old Godson picked a weed in my garden, stood looking at it closely and then came out with "oh yes, this is wonderful" haha!! He's never right!
[with Dawn Wheels Owen and Sheila Scott]

20/05/2013 @12:52
Back to drifting through days, counting down to the weekend - but probably not for the same reason as most people.
[feeling impatient]

20/05/2013
Fucking stupid app spamming fuck out my twitter feed. #Tribez

20/05/2013 @19:40
If you ever need motivation to achieve something that perhaps even you doubt that you're capable of - simply surround yourself with other people who take pleasure in telling you that you cannot do it. Then feel that hunger grow inside you, that natural desire to prove them wrong... ;)

20/05/2013 @20:35
"Tell me that you want me!
Tell me that you need me!"



20/05/2013 @20:45
Absolutely love this song ♥


20/05/2013 @21:15
Weights session and a protein shake, followed up with chicken, brown rice and veg. Fitness is a lifestyle, not a single event...
[feeling determined]

21/05/2013 @00:57
Did you get your underwear in a sale? Cause if you were here with me they'd be 100% off!! ;)

21/05/2013 @10:19
I'm getting this round in, I'll have a white coffee with two sugars, plus an extra big mug of Today Can Go Fuck Itself.

21/05/2013 @18:17
I love how understanding and flexible my work are, got informed at 10am today that I'm booked on my Court ordered S.P.I.P. tomorrow, and work have just let me book the day off.
[feeling grateful]

21/05/2013 @18:42
Pacific Rim looks immense.

21/05/2013 @20:14
After Mediation the other day, and now reading through all the SPIP paperwork and training notes that I've just hunted down online, I firmly believe that the Courts actively refer parents to these sessions in a bid to avoid having to get involved themselves. It's like all they want to do is talk you out of taking your ex through Court - regardless of circumstances or reasoning. Everything seems geared towards making you second guess your initial decision to issue Court proceedings, and implying that you're neglecting your child because you aren't seeking to make amends with the other Parent, and learn to negotiate and compromise for their benefit. Well you know what? Nothing that Mediation, SPIP, the Courts or my Ex could possibly say is going to result in me dropping legal action - so they may as well stop begging it. I've battled uphill solidly for the last six months to get where I am in this mess of a situation, and they must be a special kind of stupid to think I'm about to chuck in the towel now!!
[feeling determined]

21/05/2013 @21:15
That cliche moment on TV when someone says "I know it's none of my business, but..." and you already know that the response is going to be "you're right it is none of your business."

22/05/2013 @08:58
Shower, shredded wheat & coffee, and a ciggie ready for lots of fun at SPIP from 10am.
[feeling meh]

22/05/2013 @14:21
SPIP went brilliantly. I think I need a word with my Solicitor though from the letter I've received today... would've helped if she'd called me back after I rang last Thursday and the receptionist advised she would. I guess it's on me to be proactive and chase her down again.

22/05/2013 @22:18
Today was a good day.
[feeling loved]

22/05/2013 @22:26
Do not blindly believe that revenge and justice are the same thing.

23/05/2013 @00:00
Violence only begets more violence; stop fueling an already burning fire. He killed him, so I killed them, and then we killed those, and then... then what? We'll all be dead. What's the fucking point really? Yes, it's disgusting, sickening and shocking what has happened - however attacking and blaming innocent people based on "guilty by association" is just retarded. If I was mauled to death by a dog tomorrow, would you all rally up and go out and kill other dogs in protest? No, of course you fucking wouldn't. So I'll tell you what - sit back down on your sofa with a brew and a ciggy, and grow the fuck up. Try looking at the big picture instead of being narrow minded racists begging any reason to justify being a violent cunt. Thank you and goodnight.

23/05/2013 @00:16
Not the best recording, really bad switch where vocal tracks are mixed towards the end... but meh.
[http://www.reverbnation.com/anothab/song/17357221-contrast]

23/05/2013 @13:32
Well, this looks familiar.

23/05/2013 @20:34
Final episode of S3... thoroughly addicted. #BrBa

23/05/2013 @23:48
From where I'm sat, it seems inevitable that children will always complicate any intimate relationships in my life.

24/05/2013 @08:17
Well would you look at that, it's Christmas Eve again already. That means tomorrow I get my present, and that's my daughters presence in my present... :')

24/05/2013 @18:18
Suffering massively from gym withdrawal.

24/05/2013 @19:34
Vikings theme tune on Breaking Bad S04E03 (Y)

24/05/2013 @21:53
Undeniably addicted.
[watching Breaking Bad]

24/05/2013 @23:58
Friday night for me consisted of doing my laundry, cooking a nice meal, washing a weeks worth of dishes, lifting some weights and watching 7 episodes of Breaking Bad. Now bed is calling me impatiently to go and starfish in preparation for another lovely Saturday morning seeing my Princess... :')
[feeling comfortable]

25/05/2013 @08:24
Glorious sunshine and seeing my Ilypie? Oh yes, that will ding dang do for me! :) ♥

25/05/2013 @09:03
From happy to gutted in one phone call.
[feeling blah]

25/05/2013 @14:02
On days like today with the sun shining and fuck all to do, it sucks to be skint!

25/05/2013 @14:51
Gone are the days, of making excuses.../
Along with self loathing and feeling so useless.../
I found my strength, brushed cement from my laces.../
Broke both restraining chains, and got regaining my patience.../
Now I'm... forward moving, always musing, never snoozing, never losing.../
Proving my improvements cruising down the routes I'm choosing.../
Find every bruise amusing, refuse to let bad news affect my mood and.../
Brush off the dirt from my shoulders like there's nothing to it.../
I can do this - I'm moving through it like I was born to do it...
 Life's a movie, grab your popcorn, brews, booze - come watch me prove it.

25/05/2013 @18:27
Note to self, don't try catching empty Budweiser bottles whilst on a trampoline, just stopped one with my tooth!

25/05/2013 @22:04
Hmm, can't stop my mind wandering lately... :)

26/05/2013 @12:14
Looking forward to seeing my lil' man today, at least I'll get to see one of my kids this weekend :') ♥

26/05/2013 @13:39
Gearing up to take lil man to the park :) ♥

27/05/2013 @02:22
Proper bantering how you do after drinking wine! :)
[with Stace Lewis and Mark Jones]

27/05/2013 @09:38
That fun moment when you wake up in somebody elses house needing a piss and have to complete a challenge to use the bathroom.

27/05/2013 @13:44
My new chat up line "I'll give you £100 then you go on a date with me, then pay me the £ 100 back". Yeah, that should work. #whatapipe

27/05/2013 @19:02
Fuck TV.
[with Mark Jones]

27/05/2013 @19:14
It's really okay, there's not much else to say.
I guess I lost a part of me somewhere along the way?/
I changed; it's strange, but something still remains./
The sky's still blue through the stained window panes./
Inside though it rains every once in a while.../
Loneliness eats away from behind my empty smile./
But there's no more denial, I'm simply paying the cost./
The price of the debt, for the piece that I've lost.

27/05/2013 @23:57
I'll never stop tryin' to make our worlds all align -
& I know in my mind it's just a matter of time.

♥ Ilysha & Charlie ♡

28/05/2013 @08:33
Full volume dubstep at this hour, that's how it's done.

28/05/2013 @13:12
Don't waste today worrying about yesterday, or wondering about tomorrow. Yesterday has been and gone. Tomorrow may never come. But today is a blank canvas ready to be filled. Carpe diem.

28/05/2013 @18:26
Okay, so I've watched 54 episodes (around 40hrs of viewing) of Breaking Bad in 3 weeks. I'm now fully up to date. What's next? #marathon

28/05/2013 @19:08
Roll on this weekend, from finishing work on Friday all the way through until Sunday night I get to see some of the people I care about most. Happy days.
[feeling awesome]

28/05/2013 @21:52
"I’m tired of being told that Islam is a "Religion of Peace," when every day I can read dozens of stories of Muslim men killing their sisters, wives and daughters for their family "honor;" of Muslims rioting over some slight offense; of Muslims murdering Christian and Jews because they aren’t "believers;" of Muslims burning schools for girls; of Muslims stoning teenage rape victims to death for "adultery;" of Muslims mutilating the genitals of little girls; all in the name of Allah, because the Qur’an and Shari’a law tells them to." - Robert A. Hall, US Marine Vietnam Veteran [http://tartanmarine.blogspot.co.uk/2009/02/robert.html]

28/05/2013 @22:48
Skint actually does make me angry. £1600 a month for having 5 kids, rent and council tax paid for them, and sitting tattooing each other. What a fucking joke this country is.

28/05/2013 @23:09
Fucking raging here! Not going Court fight over your 9 month old daughter?! Sort ya fucking head out lad! Some people GRRR. Swear man, I'm spewing!! Tell you what yeah, shit like this makes me so fucking grateful for everything I've got in my life, and so reassured I made the right choice in sorting my life out! What the fuck is wrong with these people!? So many people out there burying their pissing heads in the sand and behaving like utter PRICKS for no reason! Sort your fucking shit out and give your fucking heads a wobble!! If your life is shit, then stop begging it! Instead of griping about it, fucking do something about it! JOKERS! #skint

29/05/2013 @09:16
Being happy is a conscious decision. It is the decision to brush off all the negativity and to let go of all the worries and stress. It is choosing to smile, and focus on your blessings, even when the world around you is falling apart. Every day will bring reasons to complain and reasons to cry; but also reasons to be grateful and reasons to smile.
[feeling happy]

29/05/2013 @13:57
Here’s a crazy idea, since you don’t actually know anything about using CMDLET Shells for updating Global Settings Transport Rules within SMTP Exchange environments, how about you stop getting involved and go make me a coffee instead? People are actually trying to work here.

29/05/2013 @22:38
Tonight I had a really awkward but special moment. It's hard to appreciate unless you are fully aware of the situation, but my beautiful little Godson Charlie looked up at me with those big blue eyes and asked me if I was his Daddy :') - it caught me off guard and I didn't really know how to respond since his real Dad is a waste and has nothing to do with him, plus I do think of him like my own Son. I asked him if he wanted me to be his Daddy and he said yes, and it just really made me feel happier than words could explain. The fact that I obviously mean that much to him, that he looks up to me, and thinks of me as his Father figure. Broke my heart in so many ways. I wouldn't swap him for the world ♥

29/05/2013 @23:01
[http://www.reverbnation.com/anothab/song/17197599-never-nothing-less]

29/05/2013 @23:36
I love film trailers and DVD adverts, they're like a tutorial on what to download for free.
[watching something I downloaded for free]

30/05/2013 @00:10
The awkward moment when the EDL get themselves right on Anonymous' radar again! Now Anonymous (the hacktivist group who I absolutely love) are Pastebinning EDL leaders, members and donors personal information including mobile numbers, home addresses, email addresses etc!! #OpEDL #LENG #@Anonymous

30/05/2013 @01:16
You can quit now, of course you can. You can give up, surrender, throw in the towel and concede defeat. But you can also remember why you started in the first place. You can remind yourself of how far you've already come, how many obstacles you've already overcome, and how good it feels proving the doubters wrong. You can quit now, of course you can. But I hope you know that you're better than that. The path to your goal is often difficult, and you either want it enough or you don't.

30/05/2013 @18:55
Payday; money goes in, money goes out, countdown until next payday begins.

30/05/2013 @20:33
Did you know that you can hire a hitman for less than £8k? You better ensure the people you piss off are broke.

30/05/2013 @21:14
Everybody knows that eating clean doesn't apply on a payday. #duttykebab

30/05/2013 @22:42
If you are a white girl, who speaks lyk dis blad ya get me famalam you need to #LENG yourself off sharpish.

30/05/2013 @23:30
Haha #LENG!


31/05/2013 @09:11
Sunshine on a Friday morning? Oh yes, I'll have a bit of that thank you very much! :) [feeling fresh]

31/05/2013 @15:03
This weather is screaming invites for me to go a beer garden! And I'm screaming back, "roll on half 5!!"

31/05/2013 @18:15
That beautiful time is approaching... it involves me, a mate I've missed a lot, a pretty girl and a beer garden.
[feeling fresh]

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